Here’s my response to a few of your quotes:

“the very group that is complaining about a lack of equality (rightfully so) is also unwilling to either forgo its superior status or its lack equality in its treatment of men.”

Overall women have less equality than men – but sometimes that inequality creates a certain female power, that I have written about in the past – which Bob refers to. I summed it up in my response to him:

“We create lopsided desire by 1) objectifying and fetishizing women and their body parts, and pretty much ignoring men and 2) repressing women’s sexuality by constantly punishing women for being sexual. And then we expect men to approach and constantly get rejected because either women have their barriers up or they have actually lost sexual desire – with nearly half of women saying they have low sexual desire.
“On the one hand we have men constantly getting rejected. On the other hand we have a sexist culture that makes it more likely that men will have more desire and that women will be more likely to reject.”

Sexism is also the cause of the points you make below:

“Women now view most men as “creeps’ and rapists (thanks to rape culture nonsense)”

Rape culture is not nonsense. It happens when you blame victims instead of rapists. Like when the boys who were assaulted by the Penn State football coach were threatened instead of the coach. Some other boys went to football camp and were sexually assalted by the varsity guys. And then the guys who were assaulted were threatened for making the rape public. Or, a cheerleader was kicked off the team because she refused to cheer for her rapist.

In rape culture rapists are defended and those who are assaulted are threatened because the larger culture or subculture values the rapist more. The winning coach, the star football player or basketball player. Or they think the person who accused makes their community look bad, whether that community is a university or a small town in Texas.

Besides, The more sexist a culture, the more rape there is. American Indians of the East Coast were extremely gender equal and Europeans were shocked at the lack of rape and wife battering. In fact, rape and battery are used to create a sense of male superiority.

When you have a culture where men rape women, Women grow distrustful of men. Even when they know that it is only a few men who rape, women don’t know who to trust. And so they are cautious with all men.

If you don’t like the fact that women become fearful of all men when only a few men rape, work to stop rape.

“Women view men as interchangeable and disposable”

What does that mean?

“Most women view most men as unattractive”

Because we objectify and fetishize women but not men. Plus, we repress women’s sexuality by constantly punishing it, and after many years of consciously repressing their desire, women actually lose desire – almost half of women in America have low or no desire. That is not natural – you don’t find it in sex-positive cultures. I had much less sexual desire in my mid 20s than when I was 10 years old. That’s not natural. And it followed years of suppressing my desire for fear of punishment.

“Women have privilege when it comes to dating and sex”

Yes, because of sexism. All of the things I described above. Which fits with mine and Bob’s point that sexism can create a strange female power – which also creates female powerlessness (like the lack of desire… Women can’t ask men out for a date or make the first move… Objectification…)

“Women in America have a sense of entitlement.”

That only makes sense to say that if you don’t recognize the sexism that creates low interest in sex for women, and the objectification that lies behind the perception that women are the more attractive half of humanity.

It’s kind of like people who think that blacks and women are entitled because of affirmative action. Affirmative action is not quotas, it’s about making a bigger effort to include more people, and mirror your community. It was instituted because people in our society believed that white males were smarter than everyone else. Affirmative-action actually helped businesses to make better hiring decisions because it got them outside of their white male bias. So most companies continued affirmative-action even when it was no longer required by law. Because they made more money when they did better hiring. Yet despite affirmative action, men and whites are still more likely to be hired and promoted and make more money.

“Women blame men for everything wrong in their lives (even when they have no man!)”

No one is blaming men here. I’m blaming patriarchy – a sexist system that privileges men over women – and ends up backfiring.

Patriarchy = sexism. It is the equivalent of racism. One system privileges men. the other system privileges whites. Plenty of men are not sexist. Plenty of women are sexist against their own sex. In other words, many men are fighting the patriarchy and many women are upholding it. (To the extent that it is unconsciously internalized we all uphold patriarchy – I have found that even sometimes I do. I just don’t realize it until I get outside my box.)