By Bluebird

Threesomes can be fun. I’ve indulged, myself.

But don’t do it out of pressure.

And even if everyone’s game, it works for some, but not for all.

And if it’s not a lifestyle choice, three seconds of pleasure and the ability to say, “Yeah, been there done that!” can be a slippery slope to something that’s, well, not so great.

On the one hand, being the lover to make a fantasy a reality can strengthen an already amazing relationship.

Did you get that last part? “An already amazing relationship.”

It won’t prove your love or fix a broken partnership.

And there are pitfalls like cheating or — surprisingly — the one who proposed it may not like it as much as the other two.

You can plan every detail yet not anticipate how the 2nd or 3rd person — or how even you, yourself — might feel or behave while doing the deed.

I’ll tell you my story.

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